But even though I’m doing a great job of making my 20+ payments a month, I’m slowly becoming worn down with the whole process. When I graduated college, I had a total debt load of roughly $185,000. In three years after graduation (and the five years during college), the debt had amassed to roughly $250,000 as I wasn’t making payments and interest rates were in the double digits on most private student loans. Having to resort to a few more unsecured lines of credit I kept myself afloat with a mediocre $30,000 a year job but was falling further and further behind. Now that I’m ahead and reducing the amount of debt I owe by about 5% each year (again, only for a year + so far) I see that for the next 20 years … this is my life.
And I’m not happy about it. I still don’t know why I chose a private $45,000 a year school where I earned a small partial scholarship instead of a state school like Rutgers where I would have gone for free. That awful, awful decision has changed my life for longer than I thought it would. It was just fake money in college — now, it’s real.
You might be wondering how a guy like me was able to obtain credit after say, $125,000 of those college loans. Especially when I didn’t have a credit history beforehand, and don’t have a cosigner on any of my loans. To be honest, I couldn’t tell you. A couple of them toward the end took a good amount of sweet talking over the phone. When I look back, I suppose I wish I had been declined and just asked my parents for help but I was hell bent on doing this independently. So, where can I go from here?
Well, I have no choice but to put my head down and keep doing what I’m doing. Debt sucks, especially when you know there’s nothing you can do. I suppose winning the lottery would make this process go faster, but that’s the only option. I already work 12 hour days, have a girlfriend who supports half of the living expenses, and a great job that earns a very decent paycheck. No matter what, though, the worst thing I can to is let this debt beat me down. Once that happens, I’ll start making stupid mistakes again and the last few years of progress will be flushed right down the toilet.
If you find yourself in a similar position, hang in there. Try and keep updates on the total amount of your debt. Stay positive, even if the total debt is only going down slowly. Attitude and morale don’t show in your budget, but they have a lot more to do with personal finance than you might think.
Keep your sights on short term goals. When you hit them, set some more. You’ve got a long road ahead.